A campaign to help Korean-Filipinos find the Korean fathers who abandoned them in the Philippines has grabbed headlines and led to condemnation online. Kopinos, the term for Korean-Filipinos whose mothers are often prostitutes and whose father is a visiting Korean, now number 10,000 in the Philippines. Adding to the furor, coverage about Kopinos has revealed how Koreans have become known for pursuing child prostitutes in the Philippines.
Netizens roundly condemned the behavior of men who look for child prostitutes and abandon their children in the Philippines. Castration and public execution were popular answers to the issue.
The Kopino phenomenon bears similarity to the Japino community in the Philippines, as well as Amerasians, the offspring of American soldiers and Korean mothers.
Article from No Cut News:
Korean men seek prostitutes in the Philippines ‘Looking for an 11-year-old, will not use contraception’
[Interviewer] ‘South Korean men
continue to seek out child prostitutes in Southeast Asia,’ these are the
words of a United States State Department report. Embarrassing, no? I
wish it weren’t true, but it has come out that there are a significant
number of children living in the Philippines right now who were born of
prostitution between Korean men and Filipina prostitutes. These children
are called Korean-Filipino, or Kopino for short. We are becoming aware
of a new movement among Kopinos to find their fathers in South Korea. We
are speaking today with Lee Hyeon Sook, a spokesperson for Tacteen Tomorrow, a civic group working with this issue.
So, the children of Korean men and Filipina women are now looking for their fathers, how did this happen?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Our organization
had been contacted repeatedly by an international group called Eta
Philippines. They were saying that the Kopino problem had become very
serious and asked us to come to the Philippines to report on the
situation. So we went and saw that the situation is indeed serious. It
looked like no one was working on this problem, so we decided to kind of
ring an alarm bell and try to get Koreans to take responsibility. We
thought that we could at least help these children find their parents,
so we started to help them in their search.
[Interviewer]About how many children would you say there are who were born from Korean men and Filipina prostitutes?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] There is no exact figure, but typically the number of children is estimated to be about 10,000.
[Interviewer] Is there a particular
kind of man who would do such an act: father a child, then leave
without taking any responsibility?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] There is a wide
variety in the kind of men who do this. The most common situation is
where the man went to the Philippines for tourism, slept with a
prostitute, and then fathered the child. Another common scenario is
where the men visit the Philippines on business, have a woman there as a
kind of mistress, then father a child with her. Unfortunately, there
are also situations where Koreans studying abroad in the Philippines
have a relationship that leads to a child.
[Interviewer] They were studying abroad there?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes. They meet a
girl and begin what seems like a romantic relationship, but it can be
unclear if it is prostitution or dating. Anyway, they have a
relationship, father a child, and then either leave knowing they are
abandoning the child or leave without ever knowing the woman was
pregnant.
[Interviewer] Whether they were
ignorant and just left or knowingly abandoned the children, in any case,
now there are 10,000 children from these kind of relationships. You
mentioned that there were many cases where the men went to the
Philippines as tourists.
[Lee Hyeon Sook] There are many men who go on golf trips or package tours and then end up visiting prostitutes.
[Interviewer] Do you mean that prostitution can be part of the golf package tour?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes, it seems that
men hear about these tours through the internet or word of mouth and
then find the girls through their guides once they arrive in the
country.
[Interviewer] So for them it’s golf during the day and then prostitutes at night?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] That can be the
case, there are also situations where the men bring the women along as
escorts during the day, visiting Korean restaurants and shopping malls. I
have even been hearing that there are so many of these couples in
Korean restaurants that Koreans who live permanently in the Philippines
avoid bringing their children to such places during the day.
[Interviewer] You’re saying it’s too obvious during the day?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes, parents of
children stay away from the restaurants since you can often see men
bringing in two or three girls at a time and buying meals for them.
[Interviewer] Girls you say? How young are they?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Girls around the age of 15 or 16.
[Interviewer] So you are saying that the Korean men look in particular for young girls among the prostitutes in the Philippines?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes, that’s correct.
[Interviewer] So there is evidence of that now, hmm. But then how did it happen that they are fathering children there?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] They don’t really
use contraception there. That was the situation when I visited the
Philippines for a report about six years ago. I hear that the same
situation exists today and the Korean men prefer not to use
contraception.
[Interviewer] Do they demand that the prostitutes do that?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes, so these days
when advocates for Kopinos come and talk to me, they say that it may be
hard to tell Korean men to stop visiting prostitutes in the
Philippines, but please if you could educate them before they arrive
that they should use contraception.
[Interviewer] Who was the youngest prostitute you have seen in the Philippines?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Among the prostitutes I have met, the youngest was 11.
[Interviewer] 11? That makes her the same age as a student in the fifth grade, 11?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes, she was about
the age of sixth grade, maybe 12 years old. And what really shocked us
was that she said she didn’t use contraception. But the situation is
such that most prostitutes get health problems after working for some
time, so customers seek out younger girls with little sexual experience
also as a way to have safer sex.
[Interviewer] Otherwise they might have sexually transmitted diseases, you mean?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes, that would be the reason.
[Interviewer] So they would ask for a younger girl.
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Or they may also
offer more money for a woman with less sexual experience. There was one
time when we met with a female victim who had been recommended by one of
her friends to a Korean man. The man ended up not paying her the
originally agreed amount. Later, when I visited this woman, she said
that she had negative feelings about all Koreans and didn’t want to meet
with me, saying she hated Koreans.
[Interviewer] And the Philippines
is a Catholic country, so that it strictly forbids abortions. That must
also be a reason why there are more and more Kopinos.
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes.
[Interviewer] So then these children are victims, suffering through no fault of their own. How do most of them live?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Most of the
children who are involved in prostitution live in slums. When we went to
visit the Kopinos, we saw that they were living in very difficult
situations, where all of their sisters were also involved in
prostitution. The father would work as a cleaner in the brothel where
his daughters also worked, there were many people like that who lived
and worked near nightclubs.
When these girls became pregnant,
it was not possible for them to continue working as prostitutes. Their
children, born into a world where it was normal, would also grow up to
be prostitutes.
[Interviewer] Is there anything we
can do to stop this problem? There must be something we can do here in
South Korea. Telling men, well not all men, just the small fraction who
do these things…
[Lee Hyeon Sook] It is important to
keep in mind that our country is unusual in that it is an exporter of
prostitutes, transit country for trafficking in women, and a destination
for trafficked women, it’s a very complicated situation. Most countries
that are destinations for trafficked women, which are typically
developed countries, will send members of their police force to the
country of origin to investigate the source and then give any relevant
information to the local authorities for prosecution.
There is also a movement to
coordinate investigations of these crimes through international
organizations such as Interpol. Of course, it is up to the Philippine
government to take the first steps in this process.
[Interviewer] But we also should do something.
[Lee Hyeon Sook] We should add our voice as well. We also need to make some serious changes in our culture’s view of this issue.
[Interviewer] So you are saying
that you began to help Kopinos find their Korean fathers as a kind of
wake up call to the nation. But when it comes to men who commit such an
act and then abandon the mother, are you able to ever find them?
[Lee Hyeon Sook] It’s very
difficult. There are some Filipina women who register their marriage
officially, but the process of registration in the Philippines is very
different from here. But when a woman has an idea of where the father
is, we use the services of a law firm to start looking them up.
[Interviewer] So they might have a
picture of the man or some idea of what company they were working for
when they came to the Philippines.
[Lee Hyeon Sook] Yes, there are cases like that.
[Interviewer] I hope they are able to find some of the fathers.
[Lee Hyeon Sook] They’ve got to.
[Interviewer] During our broadcast,
we’ve received many messages (from our audience) that say it’s very
shameful. Even as we have been conducting this interview I have felt my
face flush with embarrassment.
[Lee Hyeon Sook] And what hurts me
the most is the knowledge that these kind of abandonments go on in our
own country as well. This is a problem with our culture that we need to
change.
[Interviewer] Good luck with your work. That brings us to the end of our interview.
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